It takes a single second for your life to be totally changed. You live today and you think you know this life for sure and you think there is nothing that can strike you. But, you are wrong in this belief because it never takes too much for something to make your life extremely different of life you are used to. Here is the moment and you are happy with your life and you have everything you need and everything you want. You have your friends and a person you are likely in love with and everything is common and steady and the next second you suddenly realize that this life you live with is not your live and it should belong to someone else. You suddenly realize that you don’t belong here and you belong to someplace else and it is high time for you to find that place. And you leave, just like that, you say good-bye to all those people and to that life and you just leave because you know you can’t go on like that. And this though takes a single moment and this moment is crucial point of your life. That is how it happens sometimes.

We adore talking about this life and time we have for this life. People are talking about this life is too short and so on and so forth. I agree, maybe this life is really short from the point of view of eternity, but I guess sixty or seventy years are not that short period of time. We can’t keep our whole life in our minds and I guess it is an argument to weight the fact that this life is not that short as people think it to be. Sometimes, this life is much longer than it should be. Sometimes, this life is longer than we would like it to be. This life we have is not as short as we say it is and a lot of things happen while we are living and there are sometimes things that make us grow happy about the fact this life is short. Though, life tricks us and appears to be much longer and this is the sad fact about this life. People never grow younger but people always grow older and they lose friends, and they lose their parents and sooner or later you realize that there are no close to you people in this world and you all alone. You are old and lonely and there are different people in this world and you wish this life was short.

It is the matter of argument, it always was and it will always be so. People are looking for the meaning of this life because they want to know why they are here and what their mission is. They arguing about the sense of this life and they are looking for it and they find it and loose it and go looking for it again in order to lose it again. It is like the closed disk they will never get out of if they are not stopping arguing. There is no common meaning of this life for every last person n the world. We are people of different lives and characters and so they meaning of our lives are different. There is no global meaning of this life that is the very truth for everyone. It is wrong to think so and it is wrong to look for it. There is no common meaning for all people; there is the peculiar meaning for every single person in this world. There is the tine something that makes life worthy for one and that is of no importance for another one. A baby is a meaning of life for a mother but it is just another kid for some stranger.

As we enter the very serious game of life it is normal to wonder if there are really winners and losers in the game of life. If there are winners, then there would automatically be losers as well. Life offers us many challenges and it can be very difficult to determine whether there is even an accurate measuring stick that can gauge what makes one person one of the winners in life and what makes another person a loser in life. Perhaps there are no accurate measuring sticks because there simply isn’t one definition of winners in life. Perhaps there are no winners because everyone’s challenges and reactions to those challenges are unique to them.Winners in life seem to be the successful ones, at least by some of society’s yard sticks. Yet how many financially successful winners are there that are simply down right miserable? Perhaps the true gauge of winning and losing in life has everything to do with happiness. But then again, there are plenty of people who can’t even define happiness but are doing just fine by all accounts.Deciding whether or not there are winner and loser in life means that you have to put yourself somewhere on the list. If you are on the winning side then you are putting yourself above those who do not meet your winning criteria. If you are on the losing side of your list then it would make sense that you don’t feel good about yourself or your situation

The perpetual search for the meaning of life has been universal and timeless. In fact, the secret to life has been the topic of more religious, spiritual, and writing quests than nearly any other topic. What is the secret meaning of life, and why are we all here muddling through it? There are many secrets to life, and each one is as important as the next reason. We are created as social beings and we require the need of personal connection, established relationships, and purpose within those relationships in order to fulfill that aspect of our life. We are also creatures of destiny, desire, and need to fill our lives with more than mere contemplation. Those that have stopped asking the life long question of why and have started acting on their volition are truly the happiest and most fulfilled of them all.

Life is not an easy journey most often because we make it so complicated. While we can’t control all of the events which might happen in our life, we are in complete control of our responses and our feelings about each situation. When we take charge of our life and act in accordance to our inner truth and out own volition we become an empowered people. When we are an empowered people there is nothing that can ultimately rock the foundation of who we are. When we are strong and we remember our own sense of control we remove ourselves from the victim status that so many of us have adopted throughout life.

Ultimately, the secret meaning of life is personal to you in a way that nothing else can be. There are some questions we will never really know the answer to until we have moved on from this life, even if that answer is a still quite of perpetual sleep.

All people have different characters and types of temperament. This affects their attitude to life. Some people simply live their lives and don’t think much of their future and don’t make any plans. Others, on the contrary, make a lot of plans and they know what they will do even in a year. I think that people, who make too many plans, especially when they are meant for the remote future, are bores. Of course, life has its own surprises and changes our plans. However, if you have long-term plans, then it can be compared with knowing your future. Do you think it is interesting to live and know what will happen tomorrow? The answer is evident here. It is not interesting. As for me, if knew my future, I would commit a suicide. I think that each normal person is against strict planning. Each normal person must live for the day and be ready to surprises rather than to planned events. Agree that planned intimacy is unbearable. The same refers to all other aspects of life. Those who make a lot of plans are doomed to overstrain, as plans often fail and it brings disappointment and regret. People, who make no plans don’t fail, as they have nothing to lose. They are happy now and here and are ready psychologically to all possible outcomes of everything which happens with them. In other words, they take life as it is. They are the most happy people in the world. I also strive for such attitude to life but it is sometimes very difficult for me. I am somewhere between a plan maker and a person, who lives form the day.

Today many people think about meaning of life. This topic is very popular nowadays due to the activity of various religious organizations. They offer their own answers to this question. Even if people don’t accept these answers, they go on thinking about this question and try to find a sensible answer to this question. When they fail to find it, they plunge into depression. There are even people, who commit suicide simply because they have purpose for their lives. I think that this refers mostly to people, who have much free time and don’t know what to do and can’t find a suitable occupation for themselves. The fact that people ho have their own families don’t bother themselves with this question proves the truth that people, who are busy will never seek the sense for their life. Married people, who have children, see their destination in raising their offspring and providing them with everything necessary and vital. Interestingly that despite the fact that women are more and predisposed to depressions, they are not inclined to find the purpose for their life. It is so very understandable, because women have their destination from nature and understand it very clearly. Men also have their purpose: be responsible for their families, defend and protect them from all possible threats, be breadwinners, etc. However, many men either don’t accept this or don’t understand this purpose. The freer is our society, the more people in it lose meaning of life. I think that this is not a mere coincidence. If a person has no problems, he/she finds them.

Life is the most vague and strange thing to discuss. This is also one of the most difficult topics for conversation. Each person has his/her own point of view about life and own attitude to it. Many men, many minds. As for me I don’t see any sense in my life, as well as in life of other people. What we life for? Why should we study at school, at a college, find job, marry, have children and retire if the outcome will be the same in any case? I don’t believe in the great beyond. I think that our souls die together with our bodies. It is very difficult to understand when people want to live at any rate, despite starvation, misery, privations and hardships. In comparison with these people I am the happiest person in the world. I have an interesting job, a girl I love and who loves me, I have everything I need for happy life without any problems. However, this life is uninteresting and boring. Each next day resembles the previous one and it seems to last forever till the end of all days. Or to the end of my days. I want something to change in my life, to make it more lively and amusing or depart from it. It is terrible to die, because you don’t know what is waiting for you in another world and in my case it is even more terrible as I don’t believe in the Kingdom Come. I should say that it is better not to be born at all. The very fact of existence is not worth struggling for survival and is useless and senseless. Those people, who argue that life has its sense, lie to themselves. This is a sort of self-defense for them. Besides, these people are insincere and pretend to be self-confident but in truth they are afraid to discuss these things and I am not. My wish to right this message proves it.